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Oh Cat- I still can't believe SIL didn't turn up to her own brother's wedding. I think one day she will really regret that bad decision. I just couldn't imagine doing that to any of my family or Simon's family. I would be eternaly guilty for being so selfish. But that's another story. I know what you are most upset about is the lack of acknowledgement as well. It is just plain rude to not even respond to a formal wedding invitation with a card wishing the couple nice thoughts for the day. I can't understand how she could not even do that! She sounds like a bitter, self-centred woman but as I said I think she will in time regret her poor decision. For MIL to not even send you a note of best wishes is sad to. I'm sure those kind words would have meant more than her $6000. I know you can't choose your family so just try and remember that they are being the immature ones. I'm sure you and your family and friends can give Vaughan all the love and care he deserves. I do feel for him though. Sorry not much to help but I understand where you are coming from and I would be upset too. *hugs*
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