How to Uninvite Someone??...........Please Help.

[Rebecca25]

sorry widget to repeat what you had said i just read the little catty things coming from what I believe to be BOTH the 2 girls also i dont actually think its constructive for third parties to have their 2 cents no offence to you jen i just think the 2 girls are adults and they can say things without third parties i beleive also i think it comes across as bully tactics one a few keep saying the same thing i dont think quoting people then saying Yeah you asked you need to listen because to be honest and i personally wasnt offended by this

Originally Posted by Gilliy
I think it is very rude. But that is just my opinion. I would understand about being invited at a later date due to costs and numbers etc, but to then be invited and then uninvited, I think I would tell the person where to stick their friendship. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but yeah, I just couldnt do it to someone

but maybe diamondbride was should she now be made to feel bad for being offended(if she was)

I have probably upset someone here so apologies in ADVANCE i am SORRY

[Diamondbride]

I just think that my origional question was quite basic so therefore it was uncalled for...

I asked How I could tell her... Not how you guys would feel Im going to go double heck that and will apologise if worded differently..

I also think new members should not be "ganged up on" by old members... It doesnt make people wanna stick around...IYKWIM

[Widget]

All good Bec! I think it may have been skipped before anyway...

I was actually taken a bit aback at the comment... I would be highly offended if my friends didn't understand how important having my family involved was. If they don't like the idea of a private function for the 2 couples which is so much more intimate then I guess she's not as good a friend as I thought she was...

[Diamondbride]

I read back...

It said "How to uninvite someone please help"

And "I dont know what to do, please help"

I didnt sa what are your thoughts on this I said help me do what I need to do..

So thankyou to those that have tried to help.

[Rebecca25]

You did ask how to do it not how one would feel being uninvited so maybe it was a little of topic anyways but stick around Diamondbride everyone here is an adult i hardly think anyone will hold a "forum grudge" LMAO i am a funny girl this late at night :D:D

These ladies are LOVELY and full of good ideas :)

[Diamondbride]

Thanks

[Gilliy]

I have taken offence to no post in here at all.

I just think it is a little silly for people to start getting so personal. All I was saying is, it is something I could not do. So basically I would not say anything to uninvite the 'friend' and I would leave her as a guest. If you could not read that from my post, well Im sorry but that is what forums are like and sometimes you do not know how to interpret things.

I do apologise if you have been offended or hurt by my comment diamondbride, but in saying that maybe people need to grow up a little bit.

Thankyou for also making comment on how I treat my friends!

[Lilyaust]

Ok Girls this is getting out of control due to someone making a nasty comment. This forum is about ppl puting there opinions in and EVERYONE'S opinion is welcome as long as it's not catty, or to the the least *****y. this forum works well so ppl can say what they want without any back lashes from ppl if there are any more inappropriate staments made on this small issue then I will close this thread down. Please girls keep posting opinions but lets try not peronally att tacking a person by telling. Gilly what you said is fine. You put your opinion across and Dimond you don't have to accept her opinion full stop.

[Rebecca25]

I think diamondbride has a right being narky you girls offered an opinion(yes everyones should be heard)but the opinion wasnt asked for so why should she accept it in anyway..Im off for a while you girls do my head in sometimes,its like a playground :D Ah wells have fun planning girls :D

[Diamondbride]

Originally Posted by Lilyaust

forum works well so ppl can say what they want without any back lashes from ppl if there are any more inappropriate staments made on this small issue then I will close this thread down. .

Could you please..

This is Insane.. I feel 14 all over again.