How to Uninvite Someone??...........Please Help.

[Diamondbride]

Hi guys I was wondering how to go about uninviting someone to my engagement party!

Its not that we have stopped being friends or anything its that. SHe was the last one invited because


1 I am friends with her but not as close as the others

AND

2 because there was 2 spare seats... Her and her partner..

Anyways I just found out that even though they said they wouldnt be able to make it Df aunt and uncle now "can" get down here for the party after all.. From Queensland...

But That takes me over my limit... And the extra 2 people would require a whole new table at the venue.. To small a venue fo this..

I dont know what to do and need some help..


TIA

[ozwiccagal]

my advice - unless everyone has rsvped for the event don't uninvite her yet as there may be others who can't come - when is the rsvp date and when is the event?

[Widget]

Speak to her... Just let her know that interstate family have managed to find a way to get to the engagement party now and ask if she minds going out to dinner or for a few drinks at a different date so that they can attend...

Afterall, if she's a friend she should understand... And still want to say congrats as well!

[Sideways Sally]

Originally Posted by ozwiccagal

my advice - unless everyone has rsvped for the event don't uninvite her yet as there may be others who can't come - when is the rsvp date and when is the event?

You'll always find there are a few who can't make it for varying reasons at the last minute... wedding will be the same, I'm going through this now and the invites haven't even gone out yet!

[~**Jen**~]

I think if you have had a falling out or something like that it is ok to uninvite. But I think it's a little rude to uninvite because people who previously said they were unavailable are now available.

As others have said wait for all the RSVP's to come back and possibly squeeze them on another table?

[Lilyaust]

Originally Posted by Sideways Sally

You'll always find there are a few who can't make it for varying reasons at the last minute... wedding will be the same, I'm going through this now and the invites haven't even gone out yet!

You better not be univiting me.

[Lilyaust]

I would wait til all the rsvp's have come back before you worry. Not everyone will be able to come. Don't stress until you have to.

[Diamondbride]

But then it could be ruder if I wait as most people have known the date for quite some time and have na at work just to come...

SO most will prob be able to come! I know Id be upset if I got uninvited to something!

So thats why I am stuck.

[Lilyaust]

is there no way you can fit them in then?? talk to your reception place i'm sure they can accomodate you.

[Gilliy]

I think it is very rude. But that is just my opinion. I would understand about being invited at a later date due to costs and numbers etc, but to then be invited and then uninvited, I think I would tell the person where to stick their friendship. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but yeah, I just couldnt do it to someone.