I cant help but feel...

[Jesska]

sad, hurt, down graded, not wanted, not attractive, and yeah
I cant help thinking about Chris' bucks night, how he is going to the strippers, I dont understand why he would want another stripping down to nothing when he has me at home?? Like why does he needa see other chicks naked anyways
I know its a guy thing but yeah...
i know everyone will say he is coming home to you, he is marrying you... but if he is doing all that, if i am the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with... why must he go and see other chicks naked?! argh its just soooo hurtful that he wants to do this we have had this chat, and he keeps saying its not for him its for his mates, but pfft as if...
sorry just a lil down and just cant help thinking why does he want to go in the first place!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[tytalbreliam]

hmm I am one of the BTBs who dont have a problem with it. Its human nature to look.
However I can also understand that it makes some people feel icky.

[~Catherine~]

I wouldn't keep worrying about it ... seriously it is not worth the stress. I can't help with the stripper as for me it doesn't bother me at all and I personally don't see the harm in it.

Does he want to go to it or is it still the BM decision? He may not really want to go but is going because that is what has been organised for him.

[Diamondbride]

I dont Have the same feelings as you on the subject but that doesnt mean your feelings are wrong!

Hugs hun!!

[Jesska]

yeah he wants to go and thats what hurts me.

[Lacey Lou]

I really don't think you have anything to worry about. It's just a boys thing, they go to strippers.

[Mezza1683]

Maybe he's going just to have a few laughs with the boys and a bit of fun but i would prob feel the same as you. Just uncomfortable feeling

[Sideways Sally]

Honey you need to focus on the positive parts of this wedding and keep your chin up, there is no point making yourself sick with worry over something you can not change.

Unfortunately part of a good marriage is supporting each other, this doesn't always mean agreeing with one another or liking the others actions, you know the in good times and bad....this unfortunately is one of those not so great things you'll have to deal with.

Don't let a few hours ruin your relationship hon xxx

[~Catherine~]

If he wants to go then just go along with it ... it's his night. Just explain to him that you do not want him to have a lap dance (as mentioned earlier) and that you as his W2B expect him to behave.

[Mez_85]

I can understand how you feel, but he is a boy, they do this sort of thing... It is just what they do. Don't take it to heart, ask some mates over and have a night with them he will be envious of!