A tad annoyed....

[Jesska]

Ok... this is a vent... a very big vent in my opinion.
I really dont like the best man... like really dont like him, he came down to our house about 2 weeks ago i think and i told him that he has to plan chris' bucks night at LEAST a month before the wedding... and he said yeah ok.. and that there will be no strippers wats so ever.. i said yeah ok, anyways Nick (best man) rang up chris the other night and told him that the bucks night is going to be on the 1st of November.... that is 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING!!! 2 WEEKS!! apparently he has organised a bus trip down to melbourne, goin to go to the crown for a couple of hours... and then he has hired out a lounge in a strip club!!! I am soo soo sooo annoyed!!!!!!!!

[~**Jen**~]

If I was you I would be annoyed too. I am not opposed to strippers at all. i wish DH had strippers for his bucks. But that's just me.

If it's something you don't like then it needs to be respected. I think you need to tell your FH to sort it out. He needs to tell his friend that's it's not on and make other plans.

[~Catherine~]

Can I ask why it needs to be a month before?????

[jeskahm]

vent away,i do all the time..... he h ehe
was there a reason y u wanted it a month before.
i have a different view on the stripper thing, but if u said no strippers and he booked it i think that that is rude. i would be livid if i said DONT DO THIS and they did.
maybe talk to the best man and explain how it upsets u ect ect

[Jesska]

the reason why i wanted it at least a month before so i wouldnt have to stress wat that idiot would do on the bucks night and all that other stuff. and so we could just forcus on the wedding plans, instead of him having his bucks night.. like we agreed that he'd have his before mine and all that. but yeah. it hasnt turned out like that.
i cant just talk to his best man.. i yell at him i cant stand him at all... he is just sooooo annoying!!! i dont really care that they are goin to the strippers... i just dont understand why he had to hire out a privet room.. and the fact that nick promised me there would be no strippers just pisses me right off... ohh i just dont like that man one lil bit.. he better not make my day a living hell!!!

[Katie06/09/08]

I would be annoyed as well, how does your hubby feel about the plans? If he is not too keen on the strippers as well can he approach the BM and explain that a strip club is not his scene.

Originally Posted by ~**Jen**~

If I was you I would be annoyed too. I am not opposed to strippers at all. i wish DH had strippers for his bucks. But that's just me.

If it's something you don't like then it needs to be respected. I think you need to tell your FH to sort it out. He needs to tell his friend that's it's not on and make other plans.

Hi Jen, hope your feeling better. May i ask why you wish your hubby had strippers for his bucks?

[jeskahm]

aww hunny, its ok, men are wierd sometimes. i honestly think the bucks is more for the friends than the buck. they are the ones who yell and get all loud and most the time the buck is sitting there wanting to hide!!!!!!
maybe u could get FH to talk to him as u dont like him.
i hope it all works out tho.

[~**Jen**~]

Originally Posted by Katie06/09/08

Hi Jen, hope your feeling better. May i ask why you wish your hubby had strippers for his bucks?

my hubby is boring and went to the movies!

I think it's all good fun and strippers are just a fun send off. I think it's a great "boy" thing to do with your mates. I have nothing against them at all!

[Lacey Lou]

I have nothing against strippers as well, well as long as it's at least a little bit classy. I think I've heard one too many horror bucks stories.

What does FH think of it all? Really he should have listened to what you have to say, but if you think FH will enjoy the night, then that's all that really matters!

[~Catherine~]

Nor do I Jen, Gaz had one and I PMSL when I saw the photos.

All I can say is choose your battles, is it worth it so close to your wedding to stress about when your FH has his bucks night. I think it should be up to your FH with what he does, if he doesnt want strippers then he should talk to the BM